By Michael J. Critelli | MakeUsWell Newsletter,
Many of the behaviors we label as “self-destructive” don’t begin as mistakes. They begin as solutions.
Food choices, patterns of overwork, avoidance, late-night habits, or compulsive behaviors often trace back to moments when they served an important purpose.providing comfort, pleasure, relief, belonging, or a sense of independence. Over time, the original context fades, but the behavior remains. What looks irrational in the present is often deeply loyal to the past.
This is why awareness alone so often fails. People can understand nutritional guidelines, stress physiology, and long-term health risks and still find themselves making choices they later regret. The issue is not ignorance. It is that many decisions are made in moments when old motivations quietly take the wheel.